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Life Lessons of 2019.

  • Writer: Sahaja Reddy
    Sahaja Reddy
  • Dec 28, 2019
  • 2 min read

Updated: Mar 18, 2020

Every year teaches us something to remember and as it passes we can only hope to take the lessons with us and grow a bit wiser than the previous year. 2019 has been an emotional roller-coaster for me. Can we all admit that 2019 secretly destroyed us a little ?

I don't know if it's just the 2019 or me turning 21, but I did learn a lot this year and some things which I learnt are:

1. You lose some friends, you make some great ones. It's all part of a cycle.

2. Lose the ego rather than the person.

3. Not everyone can understand what you are going through, doesn't mean you are alone. Everyone who cares is just a call away.

4. Don't be petty, you are not getting any younger.

5. Even the people you think "nah they'd never do me like that" will do you like that. Don't assume you know everyone.

6. Be careful who you vent to.

7. There is nothing cupcakes can't fix.

8. Parents aren't our enemies, they are just trying to understand us in their own way. Talk to them,they will understand.

9. Mental health over everything and everyone.

10. Don't let yourself treated like shit. Be with people who know your value.

11. Your friends circle influence your goals a lot more than you think.

12. Impromptu plans are the best.

13. Get out of the comfort zone once in a while, you will be surprised what you get out of it.

14. Don't assume you know a person by their social media. Everyone's putting a mask,honey.

15. There's no point crying over past mistakes. It happened and you got through it.

16. Never ever ever think that you can't get through something. You are much bigger than the problem.

17. Remember people who were there for you in difficult times.

18. No one has the time or the energy to think about others actually. Everyone's busy in their own life.

19. Always choose a person you loves you more than you love them.

20. Travel, meet new people, read books, listen to different music, watch classics- they all add perceptive to your life.

21. Better to take risks in 20s rather than in 40s. You have nothing to lose now,everything to lose then.

22. Vodka probably won't fix your life, but it's worth a shot.

23. Every once in a while, allow a book to change your life.

24. If you don't ask ,no one is just going to give you anything in this world.

25. Getting your shit together requires a level of honesty.

26. Just because someone is taking your shit doesn't mean they will take it forever. Eventually,

they will get tired of your shit.

27. Keep it private until you know it's permanent.

28. Sometimes a small nap helps more than anything.

29. Be kind, you never know who is going through what. Your words could make their day or break

them.

30. Karma is a bitch. What goes around, comes around.


These are some things I learnt in 2019. Do let me know what you learnt in the comment section.


Also thinking to write an article on the Happening New Year parties, do let me know if you want me to.

Advance Happy New Year People!

I wish everyone happiness and success in the next year. Let's all hope 2020 will be a lot better to us and gets us closer to our goals.


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